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jpUkzf; fhyk; mwpjy; :

   

    Kf;fpa fhufh;fs; FUTk;> Rf;fpuDk; Mth;. ,yf;dj;jpypUe;J 2> 7 kw;Wk; 11 Mk; mjpgjpfs;> Nfhrhuj;jpy; ,t;tplq;fisj; njhLk; NghJ jpUkzk; eilngWk;. 2 – FLk;gk;> 7 – jpUkzk;> rl;lg;gbahd gpizg;G. 11 – ek;gpf;iffs;> Mirfs; kw;Wk; tpUg;gq;fs; epiwNtWjy; MFk;.

    cjhuzkhf flf ,yf;dj;jpw;F> 2 f;F mjpgjp #hpad;> 7 Mk; mjpgjp rdp> 11 Mk; mjpgjp Rf;fpud; Mth;. ,th;fs; Nfhrhuj;jpy; ,t;tplq;fisj; njhLk; NghJ jpUkzk; Vw;gLfpwJ. jrhTk; ,e;j mjpgjpfspd; jrhthf ,Uf;f Ntz;Lk;. flfk; kw;Wk; rpk;kk; ,uhrpf;fhuh;fSf;F 7 Mk; mjpgjp rdpahf ,Ug;gjhy;> jpUkzk; jhkjkhfNt elf;Fk;. kfuk; rdpapd; ,Uz;l gFjpahifahy; f\;lq;fisj; jUk;.

tpthfuj;J :

   

    cyfpy; Rkhh; 7 kpy;ypad; jk;gjpfs; jpUkzj;jpw;Fg;gpd; gphpe;J tho;fpwhh;fs;. rdp jpUkzj;ijj; jhkjg; gLj;JNkad;wp> jpUkzj;ij kWg;gjpy;iy.

    rdp 7 ,y; my;yJ   7 Mk; mjpgjpAld; njhlh;Gw jhkj jpUkzj;jpw;Ff; fhuzkhfpwJ.

    Fk;gj;jpYs;s rdp  7 Mk; ,lj;ijg; ghh;f;f jhkjj; jpUkzj;ijf; fhl;Lk;. vdNt [hjfh;  32 my;yJ 35 taJf;F Kd; jpUkzk; nra;J nfhz;lhy; gputpidiar; re;jpf;f NeUk;. FUtpd; ghh;it ngw;why; gpur;rid vJTkpy;iy. jk;gjpfs; ,UtUk; taJf; Nfw;w mwpT tsh;r;rp cilath;fshf ,Ug;gh;.

    NfJ 7 ,y; ,Uf;f [hjfUf;Fj; jpUkz MirNa ,Uf;fhJ. gf;jpkpf;ftuhf ,Ug;ghh;. gj;Jg; Ngiug; ghh;j;J xUtiuj; Njh;e;njLg;ghh;. FU my;yJ Rf;fpudpd; njhlh;G jpUkzj;ij nfhLf;fhJ vd;whYk;> mth;fs; ,UtUk; ,ize;J tho KbAk;.

    7 ,y; ,uhF ,Uf;f ehNd ,uh[h vd;W ,Ug;ghh;. mjpf czh;r;rp kpf;ftuhfp gy fhk tptfhuq;fspy; <LgLk; re;jh;g;gj;ijg; ngWthh;.

    7 ,y; nrt;tha; ,Uf;f jh;f;fk; nra;gtuhf ,Ug;ghh;. mj;Jld; Jizia Vkhw;wpr; nry;thh;.

    7 ,y; ,uhFTld; re;jpuNdh my;yJ Rf;fpuNdh ,Uf;f tpthfuj;J Vw;gLk;. mJNt gpuptpidf;F mwpFwp kw;Wk; xw;Wikiaf; Fiyg;gJk; MFk;. Rf;fpud; kw;Wk; #hpad;  2>4>5>7>8> kw;Wk; 9 ,y; ,Uf;f jpUkz ge;jj;jpw;F xU KbT fl;btpLfpwJ.

    Rf;fpud; vd;why; fhjy; kw;Wk; jpUkzkhFk;. #lhd #hpaDf;F mUfpy; nry;Yk; NghJ m];jkdk; milfpwhd;. Rf;fpud; m];jkdk; milatpy;iy vdpy; gpur;ridapy;iy.

fhjy; jpUkzk; :;

   

    fhjy; jpUkzj;jpw;F Rf;fpud; kw;Wk; 5 Mk; ,lj;jpd; xj;Jiog;G Ntz;Lk;. Rf;fpud; fhjiyAk;> 5 Mk; ,lk; fhk re;Njh\j;ijAk; Fwpf;fpd;wd. Rf;fpud; 5 ,y; ,Uf;f fhjy; jpUkzk; Vw;gLk;. Rf;fpud; 1> 2> 3> 5> 7> 9 kw;Wk; 11 ,y; ,Uf;fTk; kw;Wk; nrt;thapd; ghh;it Rf;fpud; kPJ tpoTk; (nrt;thapd; 8 Mk; ghh;it jtpu) my;yJ njhlh;G Vw;glTk;  ntw;wpfukhd fhjy; ;jpUkzk; Vw;gLk;.

    ethk;rj;jpy; Rf;fpud; kw;Wk; nrt;thapd; njhlh;G mjpf fhk czh;itAk;> ];ghpr czh;itAk;;; Vw;gLj;JfpwJ. ,uhrpapy;> Rf;fpuDk;> re;jpuDk; 5 kw;Wk; 11 Mk; ,lq;fspy; ,Ug;gJk;> re;jpuDf;F 5 my;yJ 7 ,y; Rf;fpud; ,Ug;gJTk;; ,Nj epiyiaj; jUfpwJ.

jhkjj; jpUkzk; :-

fsj;jpufhufd; ngz;Zf;F FUTk;> MZf;F Rf;fpuDk; Mth;.

#hpad; 7 ,y; -- f\lk; kw;Wk; jhkjk;.

rdp 7 ,y; -- tpjitAld;.

;nrt;tha; 7 ,y; -- gykhd nrt;tha; Njh\k;.

    re;jpud; ;my;yJ #hpaDld; rdp ,izaTk;> 7 Mk; ,lj;Jldhd rdpapd; njhlh;;G jhkjj;ijf; jUfpwJ.

    Rf;fpud;> #hpad; kw;Wk; re;jpudpd; ,izTk; jhkjj; jpUkzj;ijj; jUfpwJ.

    Rf;fpud;> ,yf;dhjpgjp> 7 Mk; tPL Mfpait ghg fh;jhhp Nahfj;jpy; ,Uf;f  jhkj;jpUkzk; Vw;gLk;.

    Rf;fpud; kfuk; my;yJ  rpk;kk;> kpJdk;> tpUr;rpfk;my;yJ jDRtp;ypUf;f jhkjj; jpUkzk; Vw;gLk;.

    2 Mk; tPl;by; tf;fpu fpufk; ,Uf;fTk;> 2 Mk; mjpgjp 12 ,y; ,Uf;fTk;> re;jpud; kw;Wk; rdp ,ize;J 2 ,y; ,Uf;fTk; jhkjj; jpUkzk; Vw;gLk;.

    re;jpud; kw;Wk; ,yf;dhjpgjpAld; mRgh; ,izT jhkjj; jpUkzk;.

    6 Mk; mjpgjp> 7 Mk; mjpgjp kw;Wk; 12 Mk; mjpgjp 7 Mk; tPl;by; ,Uf;fTk;>

5 Mk; mjpgjp kw;Wk; 7 Mk; mjpgjpfspd; gu];gughh;it kw;Wk; mRgUTld; ,izT nfhs;s jhkj; jpUkzk;.

    ,yf;dk; flfk;> rpk;k  ,uhrp [hjfh;fSf;Fj; jhkjj; jpUkzNk Vw;gLfpwJ. rdp nghWikiaj; jUfpwJ.

    7 ,y; nrt;tha;> rdp> #hpad; Mfpa fpufq;fs; jhkj jpUkzj;ij my;yJ jpUkz kWg;igj; jUfpwJ. 7 ,y; rdp cs;sth;fs; 35 taJf;Fg; gpd;dh; jpUkzk; nra;J nfhs;StJ ey;yJ. Rf;fpud; gyj;Jld; jpfo Ntz;Lk;. ;Rf;fpuDld; #hpad;> rdp my;yJ nrt;tha; ,ize;jhYk; jhkjj; jpUkzj;ijj; jUfpwJ. MZf;F Rf;fpuDk;> ngz;fSf;F  FUTk; fhufh; Mthh;fs;.

Xk; f;uk; f;hPk; f;uTk; \h gTkha ek.

Xk; \k; Rf;uha ek

ngz;fs; :- Xk; g;hpk; gpu`];gjNa ek

yhy; fpjhg; ghpfhuk; :- ehaf;F ghypy; Njha;j;j  rg;ghj;jpia jpdKk; fhiyapy; juTk;.

Nfhtpypy; tUgth;fSf;Fg; ghy; toq;fTk;. ifapy; nts;spf; fhg;G mzpaTk;.

ngz;fs; G\;guhfj;ijAk;> Mz;fs; ituj;ijAk; mzpaTk;.

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mjpf fhk czh;T Vd; ?

    nrt;tha; 1> 12> 2> 5> 7 kw;Wk; vl;by; ,Uf;fTk;> kpJdk; kw;Wk; tpUr;rpfk; Mfpa ,uhrpfspy; ,Uf;fTk;;; fhk ,r;iria mjpfhpf;fpwJ. tpUr;rpf ,uhrpapy; ,Uf;f Mokhd fhjy; cUthFk;. nrt;tha;> Rf;fpuidg; ghh;j;jhYk;> Rf;fpuDk;> nrt;thAk; ,ize;jpUe;jhYk;> 3>5>7 kw;Wk; 8 Mk; ,lj;jpy; Gjd; kw;Wk; Rf;fpud; ,Ue;jhYk; Vw;gLk;. kpJdk; 12 Mk; tPlhf midj;Jj; jpiu kiwT Ntiyfs; ahTk; eilngWk;. kiwe;j jpwikfSk; ,Uf;Fk;. gLf;if Rfk; ,Uf;Fk; 5 Mk; tPL fhjy kw;Wk; fhkk; MFk;. 1 kw;Wk; 2 ypUe;J 7 kw;Wk; 8 Ig; ghh;it nra;fpwJ.

                     Jizia Vkhw;Wgth;.

    7 Mk; ,lk; Jizf;fhd tPL. fpufq;fs; FU kw;Wk; Rf;fpud. 7 Mk; tPl;bd; epiy kw;Wk; 7 Mk; mjpgjpapd; epiy> ,izT Kf;fpakhf re;jpud; kw;Wk; Rf;fpud> ,uhF mjhtJ re;jpuDld; my;yJ Rf;fpuDld;> ,uhFTldhd ,izT Jizia Vkhw;Wtjw;fhd fhuzpfs; Mfpd;wd. ,uhF Vohk; ,lj;jpy; ,Ug;gJ jpUg;;jpaw;w epiyiaj; jUfpwJ. FU 7 Mk; mjpgjpahfp (fd;dp ,yf;dk;) FUTk; ,uhFTk; ,ize;jhy; FUr; rz;lhs Nahfk;> ;,J Vkhw;Wk; Fzj;ijj; jUfpwJ. 7 MK; mjpgjp kw;Wk; NfJ ,izT> Rf;fpud; NfJ ,izT ey;yJ. xw;Wikahd kw;Wk; tpRthrKs;s jk;gjpfshf ,Ug;gh;. re;jpud; kw;Wk; NfJ ,izT gf;jp khh;f;fj;ijf; Fwpfhl;LfpwJ. ,th;fs; jq;fs; Jizia Vkhw;w khl;lhh;fs;. re;jpud;> Rf;fpud; kw;Wk; rdp ,izT xU [hjfiu Vkhw;Wk; epiyf;Fj; js;SfpwJ. ,e;j ,izT cs;sth;fs; Vkhw;Wg; Ngh;topfs;. 7 ,y; nrt;tha;> nrt;tha; flfk;> kfuk; my;yJ rpk;kk;. fkpl;ll; ghh;l;dh;. ,uhF my;yJ rdpapd; ghjpg;G ,Ue;jhy; ePq;fs; mth;fisr; re;Njfg;glyhk;. MdhYk; mth;fs; cq;fSf;Ff; f\;lq;fisj; jukhl;lhh;fs;.;

tho;f;ifapy; rpwe;j Neuk; vJ ?

    ,f; fhyq;fs; jrh—Gj;jpf; fhyq;fs; %ykhf mwpayhk;. jpUkzk;> Foe;ij> tPL> tho;f;ifapy; jpUg;jp Mfpait 3> 4 kw;Wk; 5 Mk; mjpgjpfspd; jrhfhyq;fspy;jhd;>  ,t;tidj;Jk; ey;y tpjkhf elf;fpd;wd. ey;y ,lj;ijAk;> ey;t re;jh;gq;fisAk>; ey;y Kd;Ndw;wq;fisAk; xU [hjfUf;Ff; nfhz;L tUfpwJ. ntw;wpfukhd  kdpjh;fspd; tho;f;ifapy; Vw;gLk; Kd;Ndw;wq;fs;. ,e;j 3> 4 kw;Wk; 5 mk; mjpgjp jrhf; fhyq;fspy; Vw;gl;Ls;sJ.

etfpuf gP[ ke;jpuk;

#hpa ke;jpuk;

Xk; `;uq; (hrang) `phPq; `Nuhq; \ #h;aha ek` II

re;jpu ke;jpuk;

Xk; \;uq; (shrang) \;hPq; \;Nuhq; \ re;ukhNr ek` II

nrt;tha; ke;jpuk;

Xk; f;uq; (krang) f;hPq; f;Nuhq; \ ngskha ek` II

Gj ke;jpuk;        ;

Xk; g;uq; (brang) g;hPq; gNuhq; \ Gjha ek` II

FU ke;jpuk; 

Xk; f;fuq;(grang) f;fhPq; f;fNuhq; \ g;u`];gjNa ek` II

Rf;fpud; ke;jpuk;

Xk; l;;uq; (drang) l;hPq; l;Nuhq; \ Rf;uha ek` II

rdp ke;jpuk;

Xk; gp;uq; (prang) gphPq; gpNuhq; \ rd;Na ek` II

,uhF ke;jpuk;

 Xk; ghuq; (bhrang) ghhPq; ghNuhq; \ uhFNt ek` II

NfJ ke;jpuk;

 Xk; ];;uq; (srang) ];hPq; ];Nuhq; \ NfjNt ek` II

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